Although it is said that couples quarrel and quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, not all problems can be solved so easily. Many couples even have many irreconcilable conflicts due to daily quarrels! So how should couples quarrel be dealt with?
1. Learn to listen
In fact, many times, there are so many reasons why couples cannot reconcile The reason for the contradiction is actually very simple. The reason why there are so many conflicts between husband and wife is that most of the time, the husband and wife are talking to themselves, and few people really calm down and listen carefully to what the other party is saying.
Whether it is a couple or any other relationship, the most important thing is actually nothing else but learning to listen.
If either of the spouses can calm down and listen carefully to the other's voice and words, then all the problems will become less tense, and many problems between the couple will become less tense. Conflicts and problems will be solved accordingly.
2. Learn to communicate
For couples or any other intimate relationship or lovers, it is necessary to The most important thing for two people to live happily and happily together is to be able to live in peace, respect each other equally and communicate. Communication accounts for nearly 80% of such an important part in equality and respect.
Many couples have conflicts and quarrels. In the final analysis, the root cause of all this is that the two parties cannot communicate well, which makes conflicts and misunderstandings continue to deepen. Without timely communication, they cannot be resolved, causing further misunderstandings and eventually leading to conflicts between husband and wife. The relationship gradually deteriorated, and the conflict between the two people reached an irreconcilable point.
Therefore, only when a husband and wife communicate well with each other and deal with problems in a timely manner can they ensure that the conflicts between the two people will not accumulate. The quarrel between them will end as soon as possible.
3. Give the other party a step down
In life, you have to save face. Whether it is a man or a woman, whether they are arguing with each other or living in harmony with each other, they all hope to gain respect and self-esteem.
Therefore, many times, when the conflict between husband and wife becomes irreconcilable, it is mostly because both husband and wife are at war with each other and are unwilling to take a step back for the sake of the other. Everyone wants to save face and suffer, and is unwilling to give the other a step down, so over time, the atmosphere becomes more intense.
In fact, as long as you learnIf you give the other party a proper set of steps and don't make the situation so ugly, there won't be so many conflicts.
Some conflicts and quarrels between husband and wife are also normal phenomena. Which couple does not have some small quarrels? But small quarrels are pleasant, but big quarrels are harmful to the body. Couples must learn to pay attention to the above aspects when they quarrel to avoid the conflict between the two people eventually turning into a nightmare.
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