Aries girls have a very strong and independent personality, but they are not good at expressing themselves. Like most girls, they are a little bit arrogant. Even if they like a boy, they will not take the initiative to show it, so they often give boys a You feel hot and cold, so what should you do if an Aries girl is hot and cold to you?
1. Show value and learn to attract
Faced with the pursuit of boys, Aries girls will not act too proactively even if they like them, and occasionally they will become hot and cold. At this time, if you just You will be courteous without thinking, will not show your own value, and will only reduce your attractiveness. So how should boys correctly show their value in front of Aries girls?
1) Be able to speak
Because everyone’s personality characteristics and growth environment are different, so every boy’s speech The methods are also different.
For example, when some boys meet a girl they like, because they can’t hide their love for her, they have to confess their feelings to the girl directly, but what they often get is a “good guy card” that the woman politely refuses.
Boys with high emotional intelligence pay great attention to the way they speak. For example, they often say sweet words to make girls happy, humorous misinterpretations stimulate girls' emotions, and they gradually increase ambiguity from shallow to deep. Only by being able to talk can the Aries woman's emotions be satisfied, and slowly and naturally, the relationship will be upgraded to a lover's relationship.
Therefore, it is very necessary to practice emotional intelligence and master chatting skills. After all, boys who can talk are more likely to be favored by Aries women.
2) Show your own standards and framework
Aries women have a very specific attitude towards love. When you are dating a boy, you will inevitably test him. If you fail to crack the Aries woman's test on you, your impression in the girl's mind will be greatly reduced. Therefore, when facing tests, we have to show our own standards and frameworks. This is also a charming manifestation of men's sense of security.
Chat demonstration:
Male: "Miss, you are so cute"
Female: "Then can I be your exciting female guest?" ( Test)
Male: "Yes" (wrong answer)
Such an answer immediately reveals your sense of need. In the eyes of girls, your availability is too low. .
Male: "The female guest who was interested was secretly written down" (correct answer)
Such an answer misinterprets the other party's meaning and does not reveal a sense of need or release to the girl. Got a good impression.
3). Show a confident aura
Many boys feel uncomfortable when meeting a girl they are attracted to.Sometimes, you can't wait to appear in front of her and circle around her every day. This is actually a sign of lack of self-confidence and lack of security. You must know that Aries women like to pursue freedom and enjoy their own independent private space. If you hold on tightly If the other person doesn't let go, the Aries woman will alienate you because she can't breathe.
Therefore, in the process of pursuing an Aries woman, we must master the methods and timing of chatting and meeting, and maintain a certain sense of mystery in order to firmly attract her.
2. Provide a sense of security
Aries women are mysophobic when it comes to love. There is no trace of deception or backbiting. When the relationship between two people is good, they will be very kind to each other and very tolerant. But if the other person does something that seems to be having an affair with someone else, the Aries woman can withdraw without hesitation. They have zero tolerance for betrayal.
For an Aries woman, love is not a rigid need, and being alone can be very interesting. Therefore, before she is sure of your feelings, she will often be hot and cold towards you. At this time, you have to What you do is provide her with enough security and let her see your dedication, and finally you can win her heart.
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